It is important to know who around you holds influence. Who in your life, holds significant power where, if they told you something, you would change your life story as a result? This is important because we must become the Hierophant of our own lives. That’s not to say we shouldn’t have a coach. But would you question your coach? If you look at them too highly, you may not question anything they say or do. This is not good. You should never be a follower, and always an inquirer. Stay firmly in your inquiry, always challenge what you are hearing, and never stay with a coach for too long to where your relationship becomes one of dependence.
A teacher who is not a student is no teacher at all. This is why they have therapies which begin and end. At some point, your life must be up to you. It sounds cliche but the answers you seek, are truly within you. If someone is guiding you, it is their job to help you see that. Please enjoy some references below to everything I am talking about. May they help you get closer to yourself, because that’s where you belong. No hanging off of someone else’s coattails.
This is an excellent video which depicts why you should always challenge those around you no matter who they are.
Who are you still carrying around with you? Some people will live inside you without you even knowing they are taking up space. I know for me I have some heart chakra healing to do. This book (The 7 Healing Chakras) can help, it takes you through each of the chakras and helps you to clear them one by one.
One of my favorite websites mooncards.com had this card called The Orb which helps you dive deep into the topic above here and here. The questions can be posed as tarot or oracle card questions, and you can pull to understand better how this all operates in your own life.
This beautiful video by intuitive April Peladeau has her offering a free reiki session. It is an hour long. Get comfortable on your bed or yoga mat, and engage in some much needed rest while she helps you purge what no longer serves.